Even the strongest relationships are tested at some point in time. Usually, this test is your attitude to each other's problems. What if your girlfriend is having problems? Even if these problems are insignificant for you, but for her it is a disaster (quarrels with friends or parents, stress, tension at work). How can we support it?
Necessary
- - The book "Psychology of Beauty: Training of Attractiveness for Girls", A. V. Dobrolyubova, 2008;
- - Hairdresser services;
- - Cinema / theater tickets.
Instructions
Step 1
The most important quality is the ability to listen carefully. During a period when a girl has problems, all she needs is a good interlocutor, or rather the person who can listen to her. Don't interrupt or voice your negative opinion (even if it actually exists). If it seems to you that the problem is overblown out of a trifle, do not show it. What is a trifle to you can be significant and important to her. Try to put yourself in her shoes.
Step 2
Try to work together to develop a plan for the next steps. It is possible that the girl has not yet had time to think about how she should act in this situation. And you just help her figure it out. The main task at this stage is not to let her get hung up on the problem that has arisen. It is necessary to explain that it is useless to sit and constantly think about the problem, it is necessary to make some attempts to resolve it.
Step 3
Take a break from negative thoughts. Staying at home and getting depressed isn't the best option? Better to go somewhere together, unwind, meet friends, chat about something good.
Step 4
Knowing how girls love shopping and changing their image, hairstyles and outfits, arrange a holiday for your girlfriend! Go shopping, beauty salons. This will inspire her and distract her from the troubles of life. You can also throw a party at home for yourself to host a fashion show! The updated wardrobe, image, hairstyle and so on will not only delight your girlfriend, but will also become the first stage in the beginning of a new life, in which there is no place for problems!
