To be successful and confident, a man needs to feel cared for and supported by his wife. How to support your husband in difficult situations?
First of all, a wife needs to be confident in her own man herself, such confidence is transmitted to her husband. When a man feels loved and needed, he is ready to cope with any difficulties, like his wife, he is sure that he will overcome all obstacles.
When a man is tormented trying to find a way out of a difficult situation, and his wife is ready to give him an obvious decision, this must be done delicately. There is no need to declare elementary things in the forehead that the spouse does not notice, but it is worth trying to smoothly lead him to a decision, or gently prompt, advise.
Do not stop reminding your spouse that you think he is a smart, reasonable man and that whatever decision he makes, in this situation, it will be correct. The man will receive the necessary incentive and will act more actively and confidently.
If a man is depressed under the yoke of problems, do not try to get upset and get depressed after him. On the contrary, a woman should always radiate a positive attitude, believe in a good outcome of affairs, this will help to charge your spouse with a positive attitude.
Sometimes a man just needs time to digest information. Create a suitable atmosphere of silence for him, let him have the opportunity to calmly think over everything, weigh, make decisions. At such moments, you should not pester your husband with questions, advice, unnecessary comments, in this situation, a statement is applicable, silence is gold.
Refrain from unsolicited comments and criticism. If a man is engaged in any business, you should not interfere and teach how to do it correctly, it is best to restrain yourself. If you want the husband to be the head of the family, who will bear responsibility for you and your loved ones, take care of them, want to feel like behind a stone wall, you should not take on much. There is no need to engage in men's affairs, even if you are sure that you will do better, you will beat off all the hunt from your husband, he will shift the burden of responsibility onto your shoulders. Maintain a desire to fulfill men's responsibilities.
Respect your man, his opinion. Teach the children that the father is in charge in the family and that the last word is always with him. A man should feel that the whole family supports his leadership, respects his decisions.