In the life of most women, sooner or later rivals appear. It can be both a real lover, with whom a man has already cheated, and a potential rival - a girl to whom he gives signs of attention. Each woman chooses her own way of solving this problem - to fold her hands and wait or fight for her man.
Don't make a scandal
Men cannot stand women's tears and scandals - this is an axiom. Of course, he will want to go where he is greeted with a smile, and not with a mute reproach on his face. Even if it is very difficult, you need to try to overcome yourself and return to the relationship the ease that was at the very beginning of the novel. To meet your husband in a cozy apartment, cook his favorite dish, offer to do a massage after a hard day's work - these seemingly little things will actually make him want to always return home. You can only put a man in front of a choice if you are 100% confident in your victory.
Focus on the opponent's flaws
We'll have to be a detective and an actress all rolled into one. You need to get to know your rival. If the girl is not part of the usual social circle, you can get to know her in absentia. Thanks to social networks, you can find out almost everything about a person. After examining the girl's page, we identify her weaknesses.
Example: Her playlist consists solely of pop songs of frivolous content. In a conversation with her husband, one can, as it were, accidentally make a reservation that such music is listened to by young girls who are not burdened with intelligence. You can ridicule anything - the manner of speaking, the style of dress, the inability to cook, education, love of reading, or vice versa - a complete reluctance to read. The main thing is not to make fun of a specific girl, but to present any situation hypothetically.
Take care of yourself
“A man loves with his eyes” is a hackneyed phrase that nevertheless fully reflects reality. No man wants to see an unkempt woman next to him. A new hairstyle, beautiful clothes, smooth skin will not only help to attract the attention of a man, but will also significantly increase a woman's self-esteem.
You can sign up for yoga, dancing, language courses. The main thing is to find yourself an exciting activity that will help you distract from thoughts about your opponent (existing or potential). And the man will understand that it turns out that without him, his woman may be interested.
Induce jealousy
The main thing here is not to overdo it. You can flirt with someone in front of your man, so that he understands that his woman is successful. However, this can be done only if there is interest from other men. A girl who frankly begs for compliments and is trying with all her might to attract attention looks very pitiful. So the effect can be just the opposite.
In any case, there will be several questions that will remain after the man returns to the family. Will a woman be able to forgive him? Does she need a man to win back? And won't this situation happen again in the future?….
