Men, especially not very adults, are very fond of asserting themselves at the expense of others. It can be not only a beloved girl, friends, relatives, but even complete strangers. In order not to bring the conflict to the limit, you need to stop the young man in time, distract him, switch attention to something else.
Instructions
Step 1
Men are like children. And if it seems to them that someone has hurt their feelings or doubted the brutality, this requires an immediate debriefing. But most likely, the person did not want to offend, he simply expressed himself incorrectly. Stop your partner gently. Tell them that a decent adult should not shout and sort things out, and even more so, get into a fight. Suggest that you ignore what other people say. Assure him that he is the best, and everything else is empty talk of envious people. Men are very fond of flattery and will surely be distracted from an unpleasant topic.
Step 2
If a guy allows himself to raise his voice to relatives - mother, father, sisters and brothers, be sure to stop him. This is not easy to do, because you will have to break the model of relationships that has formed in the family. But if this is not done, the man will subsequently switch to you. Therefore, try to reconcile your loved one with relatives. Tell them that even if they are wrong, they still remain close people. And do not spoil your relationship with them. If a conflict is brewing, and the dialogue does not work, just disperse to different rooms and give each other time to cool down. After calming down, arrange a truce.
Step 3
In the event that a guy takes actions that you do not like, or you are not yet ready for them, constructive dialogue will help resolve the situation. You shouldn't scream and be hysterical. This will only make your partner angry. Calmly explain to him why you are not ready to fulfill his wishes now. Give reasonable reasons. If a person respects your feelings, he will definitely listen to you. And if you still insist on your own, think about whether you need such a relationship where you will have to constantly be under oppression.
Step 4
In any case, if a young man begins to get involved in a conflict with others in your presence, do not go over to their side. This can greatly offend your partner. Just try to settle everything peacefully. Say that you fully support your loved one, but against aggression. Make sure that dialogue is the best way to solve problems. So gradually your boyfriend will stop thinking that the whole world is against him. And conflicts will resolve by themselves.
