So, you met a pretty, intelligent, interesting and caring woman. At the same time, she is a mother, which means that her children will always be in the first place. No less time is spent on work, since your chosen one is not only a mother, but also the only breadwinner in the family. How can you find time for a relationship in these conditions?
Instructions
Step 1
Be prepared to spend a lot of time at her place. It is not always easy to find someone who will sit with the children in the evening: the grandmother is busy, the friend is sick, and the nanny costs money, and not every woman will agree to entrust the children to the babysitter. An evening at home with a bottle of wine and ready-to-order food can be as good as a date at a restaurant, and a lady will appreciate your willingness to meet her halfway. Some women, on the other hand, wait a long time before bringing a man into the house. This is dictated, first of all, by caring for children and unwillingness to injure them. Be patient, she will definitely invite you to meet the children when she is confident in your relationship.
Step 2
A single mom has a lot of urgent tasks and responsibilities that she cannot cancel. Suppose you both have been waiting for a date for several days, but if the child has a fever, you can be sure it will not take place. She will return home by ten to put the children to bed, walk into the supermarket during a romantic walk, answer calls at the most inopportune moment, etc. - just treat it with understanding.
Step 3
She has long learned to change light bulbs, fix children's toys and communicate with workers at the tire service, but this does not mean that she does not need your help. She has a million things to do, and some of them she put off to spend time with you. In general, it is in your power to make her life easier and happier, and for this you do not need to put in a lot of effort: cook dinner, wash the dishes, make sure that everything in the house works properly. Finally, give her a massage or take a bath to help her relax after a hard day.
Step 4
Show interest in her children, but take your time. Gradually learn about what they like, how they behave in different situations - and then by the time you meet you will be fully armed. Don't worry if the relationship doesn't work out quickly, be patient.
