Do you think that life with a man has become too calm and predictable? In the house for a long time you have not heard the clang of plates breaking against the wall, and the neighbors ask why it is so quiet here? Several ways will help you defuse the situation, bringing the man to a quiet (or not very quiet, it all depends on his temperament) tantrum!
A warning
All of the methods described below are classified as “bad advice”. Be sure to check them out so you never do that! Remember that quarrels, conflicts and manipulation are not acceptable ways to achieve your goal in a full-fledged union.
The most effective methods
For starters, if you have not quarreled for a long time, it is useful to just make him a scandal. No special reason is required, because there is always something to complain about. Something your beloved is late at work? So what, that he was given an award for hard work, for sure he has a nice secretary there? Did you help with the housework? Who helps that! Or maybe, on the contrary, there is too much lying on the couch after a working day, a lazy person? Show him where the crayfish hibernate!
The best time to make a complaint is when a man just came home from work, tired and hungry. In no case do not let him even sit down and have a snack, get down to business immediately. Claims first, then lunch! And what kind of lunch can we talk about in such a situation.
After the quarrel has subsided a little, do not rush to relax. Take a critical look at your man. Does he dress badly? Don't like his driving style? Surely he has other flaws that need to be worked on. It is better if you criticize him in front of other people, for example, if his friends came to visit. Let everyone know how you care for him.
By the way, about taking care. After all, you have not forgotten who is in charge of the family? Let him not forget. Tell him carefully what to do, constantly. Indeed, without this, he is unlikely to cope. You know perfectly well how worthless he is. Someone has to help him in life. Even a tie to a shirt cannot be picked up by himself! This is your cross, take it responsibly.
If you want your man to only get better, then it doesn't hurt to show him someone, so that there is an example in front of his eyes. It's best to have someone you know well, such as your ex. Compare them in everything, remembering to tell the man where he is losing. People like his friends, colleagues, relatives, or neighbors can also be great examples. At worst, even TV characters or celebrities will do.
You know that he lacks mental companionship. Talk to him every night, ask if he loves you? Check if it is strong. If he doesn't answer confidently, ask ten more times. Also, be sure to ask what he thinks about. Do this as often as possible, let him know how you care about him.
Clean up his desk. You can also clean all of his pockets and pile whatever you find there. Tidying up his papers and books will also be useful. It is best to arrange books by color or size, because it is so important to be beautiful! Place all papers in a straight stack. The tattered leaves crossed out by notes can be thrown out altogether: anyway, no one will be able to read what is written there.
Applying the described methods regularly, you will quickly notice how much more interesting and fulfilling your family life has become.
