Most likely you have heard the phrase "behind every great man there is a great woman." This is partly true. A man does not generate energy, he receives it from a woman: sister, mother, girlfriend or wife.
A man usually doesn't need much. He begins to build a business and achieve unprecedented heights only so that his woman is proud of him, and the family does not need anything.
There are women who can turn even a previously successful man into a weak-willed vegetable that lies on the couch and wants nothing in this life except to eat and drink beer. And some do not even understand what they are to blame. It seems that they married normal, but became abnormal. He probably deceived, he wanted to make an impression. But in fact, he just wanted to sit on the neck of the unfortunate wife.
Changing partners does not help such women. They will ruin even the most successful if he does not escape in time.
To tear the husband away from his relatives
The first thing that cannot be done is to tear the husband away from his relatives. If a woman has ruined relations with everyone and literally forbids her spouse to communicate with family, this is the first step towards the fact that a man will become a poor man. If a woman always thinks that she is being unjustly offended, she is being slandered in vain, and in general, she got married, there is nothing to go to my mother, come to your senses! Never do that. Try to resolve conflicts. If your mother-in-law does not digest you, do not visit her. Let the husband ride alone. Gently line up the boundaries so that the mother-in-law does not sit on her neck too much. Because it often happens that a mother who has raised her only son believes that he owes her to her for the rest of her life. Such people often live with their sons until their death. Naturally, you need to live separately as a family. But the husband is obliged to visit relatives.
I am the mistress of the house
In general, there is only one owner in the house - this is a man. A woman ennobles her home, creates comfort, prepares food. But, all questions regarding property are decided by a man. If it so happens that you live in your territory, in no case dare to blame your spouse for this. Try to somehow resolve the issue of buying a joint living space. But so that this housing can be rented out, and not exchanged for a large area. The money from the rent will go to the family budget, and then there will be a good increase in the pension. You must inspire a man to buy a joint apartment.
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Yes, men and women have different responsibilities. The woman is more concerned with the house and children, while the man is the breadwinner. But do not cut if the husband brought little money. Do not criticize, humiliate, or insult him. Even if you really want to. Even if there is nothing to eat. By doing this, you will completely chop off his wings.
But also do not take on the second and third jobs in order to have enough money. Remember, he is the earner. You are the helper. If you switch roles, he will lie down on the sofa and become a beggar. She will still lie and say that you are to blame for everything. And it will be true. There is no need to take on someone else's burden. Take care of children, home and spouse's inspiration for new victories.
The poor man's wife tries to remake him
When you got married, did you see what you took? And there is no need to redo it, only the wives of losers do this. He is an already formed personality. Redesign yourself. Grow, develop, read, energize, become better, more feminine and more beautiful. Don't turn into a dumb housewife in a washed bathrobe. This is what the wives of poor husbands look like.
If you accept him for who he is, love him, he himself will begin to grow and become better. He is not a robot, he may have flaws and weaknesses.
No praise
Losers are not praised. They only criticize. If your husband brings flowers home and hears that he is a loser, you can believe that you will not receive more flowers. And if you don't need gifts, what's the point of straining and earning? If a man is constantly nailed, he will surely spit on everything, and generally stop doing at least something. If before he hammered a nail crookedly, after constant criticism, he will not pick up a hammer at all.
Losers' wives never believe they can do anything. All their ideas are nonsense, and all their endeavors are a waste of time.
Unhappy woman
All losers and poor people have wives like a match: unkempt, tortured, unhappy. Such women are never happy about anything. They don't even have time to rejoice. They are so tortured by the eternal lack of money.
Women, take care of yourself! You are the source of energy and inspiration for your man. And if he is lying on the couch and does not want anything, this is your merit, provided that he was good and became bad. And if you married a parasite, then this is character. And it's much more difficult to remake it. Here the woman should already be full.
The energy of a woman is much stronger than a man's. Therefore, your thoughts make your man. If you constantly think that he is a loser, nothing will work for him and again he suffers from bullshit, so be it. Send your husband positive energy, give your love and appreciate. Then he will never become a poor man, but on the contrary he will try to increase his well-being in order to delight you with gifts and make you happy.
