Often, newlyweds are not prepared for family life. Everyone seeks to prove something, to be a leader, believing: "to yield is the lot of the weak." You need to show strength of character in a different way: stop in time and act wisely and deliberately.
To give up does not mean to lose or give up the right to your point of view. Confrontation will not solve the problem, but will only heat up the conflict. A wise woman will give in, and then, in a calm atmosphere, will return to the conversation, but no longer in a raised voice. She knows that this is more likely to get what she wants. The husband's ardor will subside, he will want to do as his wife suggested. But at the same time, the man will be sure that his opinion is respected and does not encroach on his role as head of the family.
The battle for one's own "until victory" shifts the responsibility for the result onto the stubborn one. For example, the wife offered her husband to borrow a kitchen set. And the husband understands that while financial opportunities do not allow this to be done. Does a wife need to stand her ground "until she loses her pulse" so that she can grieve over debts later and listen to the fair reproaches of her husband?
What is the reason? Analyze why the conflict started. Maybe this is a banal discrepancy in the view of the problem? Or a woman's whim? Ask yourself the question more often: "What is more important for me: to amuse my self-esteem or to keep family happiness and peace?" After introspection, the choice will be correct.
