When looking for your soul mate, you should be more careful with those guys for whom there are no high feelings and any principles. Having perfectly mastered the art of seduction, they easily find a new victim only in order to achieve closeness with her, and immediately begin to look for another suitable candidate. In order not to be cruelly deceived, it is worth learning to recognize the pickup trucks.
Instructions
Step 1
Please note that pick-up artists have their own method of seducing a victim. It is based on such postulates as: an unusual beginning of dating, obligatory body contact during all meetings (the guy will try to touch you during the conversation), promotion for spontaneous sex during the third date. Already on the first date, the pickup artist will definitely ask for your phone number, but he can call you in a week.
Step 2
Do not forget that the masters of seduction are constantly improving the techniques used, so the above ones can be slightly modified, for example, sex on a second or fourth date, a phone call to you the next day after dating, etc. If you find all these signs in the behavior of your young man, be careful, perhaps he is not interested in you, but in his own self-affirmation.
Step 3
If you suspect that your active caring guy is a pickup artist, ask him to buy you something. Another most important pickup principle is to avoid spending on the "lady of the heart". Typically, seduction specialists begin to bargain, asking what the victim can do to reward his generosity. However, in their arsenal there is one more trick - to buy everything in a much larger volume than is required: ice cream - a bucket, Coca-Cola - 2 liters, etc. This is done with the aim of the lady lagging behind with her mercantile requests.
Step 4
Ask your boyfriend to set up a date exactly where you want. Usually, a pick-up artist has everything clearly planned out, and he is unlikely to easily agree to grant your request.
Step 5
Actively ask the young man about where he studies or works, what he does in his free time, where he lives, what plans he has for the future. What hobbies, interests, etc. Pickupers do not like such questions, their goal is to collect as much information about you as possible in order to easily translate their goals into reality.
Step 6
Start using pick-up terms in a conversation in the presence of a guy, as it were, and make mistakes in them. If he corrects you, you will have a reason to suspect him as a pick-up artist. Another option is to name them correctly and watch his reaction. For example, you can unobtrusively use terms such as "field" - the place where you meet girls; "Opener" - the first phrase when meeting, from the English. open - open; "Rapport" - adjustment to the victim; "Calibration" - an assessment of a person's reaction to your words. Hearing familiar terms, the pick-up artist may be confused, as he decides that you understand who he is and what he wants from you.
Step 7
Note that pick-up technique teaches guys to be cultured. If your young man often quotes philosophers, writers, reads poetry, especially in combination with the above signs, there is a chance that he is a pick-up artist.
Step 8
It is worth not forgetting that the pick-up artist seeks to get into the soul at all costs, to win over the victim. Therefore, if you very quickly feel that you and your boyfriend have a lot in common, you should not jump to conclusions - perhaps his behavior was designed just to endear you as much as possible.
