Not every girl wants or can get married early. Some are passionate about their careers, others with easy romantic relationships, and still others simply cannot meet “the one”. And after 30, finding a husband is not so easy.
The virtues of marriage after 30 years
As a rule, by this age women achieve material well-being. A good job with a stable salary, and maybe even your own apartment and personal vehicles. The potential spouse also, most likely, has a stable financial situation. So you don't have to worry about financial issues, give birth to a child and provide him with everything he needs.
A woman after 30 years often knows a lot about sex, understands her preferences and can tell a man how to please her. The sex life of an adult spouse will combine passion and experience that will delight both parties.
Such brides are usually already visited in many ways. Having “walked around” in their youth, they are not afraid to fetter themselves with the “shackles of marriage”. The time of emotions and passions has passed, now they want to enjoy quiet family happiness. They no longer need freedom, which means marriage will bring more joy.
Women after 30 years of age are ready to give birth and raise children. Some young mothers may be torn between career, fulfillment and child. And adult mothers have achieved everything outside the family and are ready to give themselves to the baby.
Disadvantages of marriage after 30 years
It is difficult to find a man to meet. In his youth, one could meet at the university, in a club or in a developmental circle. There were many parties and mutual friends who help find a man. But, as a rule, the older a person gets, the more difficult it is for him to meet new people. Therefore, it takes a lot of effort to find a suitable gentleman.
Due to unsuccessful past relationships, a woman can be very suspicious and picky. For example, if she was previously cheated on, she may be jealous of her new man. Calling for whereabouts, checking pockets, asking questions on late returns. Such pressure can scare a potential husband. Therefore, you need to learn not to transfer past grievances to the new person. It's worth giving him a chance to show himself.
Living alone for a long time can make family life uncomfortable. Each spouse has his own habits, way of life and views on the conduct of life. In adulthood, it is not easy to adapt to another person and make compromises, so there can be serious quarrels on the basis of everyday life. It is better to live with your fiancé before marriage to check your compatibility.
In addition to difficulties with a man, a woman after 30 may have problems carrying a child. If she has not given birth before, and the marriage is concluded precisely with the aim of having a baby, complications may arise. Therefore, it is worth taking good care of your health and planning a pregnancy immediately after the wedding.
