The feeling that you cannot do without you somewhere: in the family, at work, among friends - is very flattering. On the one hand, this is achieved at the cost of everyday work, physical and emotional. On the other hand, it is so nice to know that you are needed, your closeness is invaluable.
Instructions
Step 1
To be needed for someone, first of all, do something that you really can't do without in a team. For example, learn how to cook deliciously, serve dishes beautifully. Then your household will be waiting for you at home to taste a new culinary masterpiece, and being without you, they will understand that "they are like no hands" when you are not at home.
Step 2
Before you want to become needed, ask yourself a series of questions. For whom do you want to be, why, in the name of what, what personal goal are you pursuing? And answer these questions honestly. You do not have to blindly follow the tasks assigned to you by other people. But they must follow their goals, achieve them.
Step 3
At work, take a firm grip on one important front. For example, keep on your personal computer the coordinates of important clients with whom your firm works.
Step 4
Find an occupation for yourself or an area of activity in which you will not be equal, and you will be a pioneer here. That is, you must not only find your place in life, but also have time to do it first.
Step 5
If you have hidden talents, show them. If you consider yourself untalented (but such people, according to scientists, simply do not exist) - become a unique efficient employee or inspire others to take some action.
Step 6
Attend psychological trainings that challenge coping challenges. That is, to solve some tasks that previously seemed difficult and impossible to a person. At the same time, ask yourself the question: "Will I be able to do this?" And make attempts to translate your plans into reality.
Step 7
Know your worth, be even a little selfish for this. If you believe in your irresistibility and usefulness, they will believe you too. Respect yourself first if you want to be respected.
Step 8
Let the positive into your life. Do not endow your thoughts with the words: "I am not needed by anyone (not needed)." This attitude attracts loneliness and bad luck. You are needed by someone very close! You just need to see, notice those who need you.
Step 9
Do not inflame yourself and your knowledge, experience, talents, opportunities. People around you appreciate the specifics from you too. Pick one goal in your achievement and pursue it until you notice that it has come true even better than you expected.
