Some girls are reluctant to talk about their pregnancy right away. If you need to find out whether a woman is a future mother or not, but at the same time you are afraid of offending her with an inappropriate question, act more subtly.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not ask a girl directly if she is pregnant if you are not sure about the answer. She may be offended by your appeal. Some women are able to regard the issue of pregnancy as a hint of their excess weight, absent-mindedness or moody nature. Be tactful and act wisely. Observe the girl, collect information about her behavior.
Step 2
In the presence of the girl, start a conversation about children and see her reaction. Look into the eyes of a woman. If her gaze has warmed, perhaps it is not just that. But it may turn out that she will not support your conversation and will not show any enthusiasm. Maybe she will even declare that she is not going to have children, at least not in the near future. If you have no reason to suspect the lady of insincerity, then the investigation can be stopped.
Step 3
If you decide to ask a question about pregnancy, you need to find some basis for your curiosity. For example, you might refer to the fact that a girl smells very well, and half-jokingly ask if this is due to pregnancy. Or tell her that she glows directly from the inside, like a mother-to-be. Most likely, the girl will not deny, and if there is no pregnancy, she will not be offended by your question.
Step 4
Hear the woman talk about her future plans. If she is going to pay a lot of attention to her career, travel or some hobby of her own, she is probably not going to become a mother yet. When a girl is closely engaged in her career, it is obvious that she does not plan to go on maternity leave, and then parental leave.
Step 5
When the girl told you about her pregnancy, be sure to congratulate her on this joyful event. Ask how she is feeling, if she needs any help. Show concern for her. Keep her happy. Discuss the gender and name for the baby, the future dowry for the baby. Ask how the appointments with the midwife are going.
Step 6
There are some tactless questions you shouldn't ask a pregnant girl. Firstly, if she is not married, there is no need to wonder who the father is and whether there will be a wedding. Secondly, in any case, you should not ask if the pregnancy is planned. Believe me, regardless of the original plans, the girl is happy that she will soon become a mother. You don't need to know that it happened by accident.
Step 7
Don't draw attention to the negative aspects of pregnancy. Do not ask how many kilograms the girl has already gained. Do not ask if she is swollen, has shortness of breath, or if her thinking skills have weakened. Be positive, don't say nasty things.
