Sometimes it seems that a relationship with a loved one will last forever. But life itself puts everything in its place. Sometimes even the smallest reason is enough to end up parting. So what should you avoid in a relationship?
1. Put your smartphone away
Are you familiar with the situation when you came with a person to a long-awaited meeting, and he does not let go of his mobile phone, checking messages on social networks every second? Not a very pleasant situation. If you have a free evening, put your phone away, forget about your favorite computer game and chats for a while. It is better to devote precious free hours to your soul mate.
2. Live your life, not someone else's
Yes, you are together now, you are crazy about each other. But this does not mean at all that now you need to spend every moment together. Live your life too, do not devote all your free time to your loved ones - you need to rest from time to time from each other.
3. Avoid talking about your ex
“My ex knew how to fix computers, and you…” - it’s not very pleasant to hear this addressed to you, right? Try to find a different, more interesting topic of conversation, or, at the very least, do not compare your partner with his predecessor.
4. "I can't read your mind!"
This point especially applies to girls who are able to more accurately and quickly notice some of the subtleties. Most men do not have the same excellent intuition. If you really want something from your young man, then tell him about it directly. And do not blame him if the poor guy misinterpreted your hints.
5. Don't ask too much
They say to love is to sacrifice. But donating not everything and not always. If your loved one has not done something for you, this does not mean that he does not love you. There can be a great many reasons. Therefore, before you start reproaching your partner, put yourself in his place and think carefully about how you would act in this situation.
Relationships are not easy at all. You need to be able to understand, adjust, make concessions, ask for forgiveness, and this is not a complete list. Be more attentive to each other, and then, probably, your relationship will last as long as you want it.
