Compliments were invented in order to flatter human pride. They satisfy the natural need for recognition. However, not all people know how to properly respond to such manifestations of sympathy, so as not to create problems in communication.
Instructions
Step 1
According to experts, most of those people who do not like compliments and do not know how to adequately accept them lack confidence in their own abilities. The habit of accepting signs of attention is formed from childhood, therefore, if the parents criticized the child rather than admired him and his merits, in adulthood he will have a persistent and unshakable confidence that he does not have virtues to be proud of.
Step 2
For those who are more than familiar with such experiences, psychoanalysts recommend reconsidering their attitude to compliments. If they are unsettling and unsettling, you shouldn't give them too much importance. Treat them easier without trying to analyze whether you deserve them or not. Perceiving them as kind, polite and positive words addressed to yourself, you seem to break the inner shackles that bind you. For any compliment, it is enough to say the usual human "thank you" without driving yourself into the jungle of the subconscious. Constant work on one's own self-esteem, its improvement, will help a person to relate calmly to the compliments of others.
Step 3
A compliment spoken by a man has a special effect on a woman. He seems to inspire and charm. But since in many ways a compliment is one of the elements of successful communication, you need to treat it correctly. If a man has expressed admiration for your appearance, culinary abilities or character trait, you should not flirt and deliberately belittle your dignity. Even if it's just plain flattery, accept it with a calm smile and gratitude. Complimenting a compliment is optional. What's the point in taking turns praising each other? It's much more appropriate to wait for the right moment when the compliment is appropriate and perceived as your personal point of view, rather than a polite response to someone else's praise.
Step 4
If you receive a compliment and a token of attention from a person you like, and you understand that he also expresses sympathy for you, you can use all your seduction abilities and even flirt in response to the praise. Some girls, with such communication, begin to feel embarrassed, blush, men even like it, so if some words make you uncomfortable, do not worry about your reaction, the main thing to remember is that you must behave naturally.
