It is very important to pay attention to the culture of speech of a teenager in time and if problems arise, the given tips will help to solve them.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, parents need to start with themselves. Pay attention to communication within the family, perhaps you yourself sometimes slip into obscene words and it is the child's close environment that fuels the desire to swear in him. A teenager may think that using foul language is a sign of growing up, because the main role model, parents, use these expressions.
Step 2
You should not impose a direct prohibition on obscene language, as you will immediately meet resistance from the adolescent, children do not tolerate instructions and try to act contrary to their parents. Point out that the use of expressions in this or that situation is simply inappropriate, especially for self-respecting adults and, on the contrary, looks rather childish. Use an example to point to famous successful people who have achieved success and influence through their ability to communicate in a pure cultural language.
Step 3
Perhaps the teenager does not understand the meaning of some of the expressions used. Ask the meaning of certain phrases. Perhaps, after discussing the meanings and inappropriateness of their use, the child will stop using harsh words.
Step 4
Pay attention to the child's surroundings, it is possible that bad company affects your child's ability to express. Ask the teenager why he does this, strives to keep up with others, is afraid to seem unworthy of the attention of friends. Explain to your child that real friends will perceive him as he really eats and at the same time appreciate him for his personality. Friends, this is the environment of people who are ready to support at any time.
Step 5
Children should not be severely punished for using obscene language. Perhaps the child in this way strives to attract your attention, to cause a certain reaction. Therefore, do not react violently to such antics. On the contrary, try not to react to such speech, and the child will no longer need strong words.
Step 6
Perhaps it's time to change the child's social circle, immerse him in a different atmosphere and introduce him to new people. Invite the teenager to choose an activity to their liking, a sports section, a music club, anything that can bring up a desire for discipline and good manners in a child is suitable.
