The peculiarities of the development of the inner world of a little man are directly related to his age. To understand their child, a parent must learn the basics of child psychology long before actually becoming a parent. In the same sense, consultations with a child psychologist will also be useful at different stages of a child's growing up. They will help you figure out how to build relationships with children at one stage or another of their growing up.
Necessary
- - study of manuals on child psychology;
- - consultations of psychologists.
Instructions
Step 1
0 to 1 year old.
Remember one important rule of the first year of a child's life: up to one year old, he builds his idea of the world, based on the relationship with the mother. The mother, in fact, is the whole world and the closest person for the baby. Because the child is not able to take care of himself, these responsibilities are performed for him by the mother, thanks to which he grows and develops. But don't limit your relationship with your kids to eating and changing diapers. Your task is to surround your child with love. If in the first year of life a child feels cared for, it means that his trust in the world is growing. And in the future, it will not be so difficult for him to build relationships with other people. Do not miss this most important stage in his life. Give your baby the maximum amount of love.
Step 2
1 to 3 years old.
Give a slightly older baby the opportunity to start independent development. In time, this coincides with the stage when the child takes the first steps and already knows how to control natural discharges. Don't keep him on a leash all the time. He wants to stand on his feet, let him do it. If he plops on his butt after taking a couple of steps, it's okay. How else will he learn to walk? At this stage, it is important for a young mother to keep an objective picture of what is happening. Trying to stand on your own is the first step in building character. Do not interfere with your child's progress with the habit of doing everything for him.
Step 3
3 to 6 years old.
During this period of a baby's life, such an important quality as initiative is actively developing. The child behaves energetically, he manages to look everywhere. During this period, he asks his parents a huge number of questions. Your task is to patiently respond to them. The peculiarities of the development of children at this stage require it. They develop curiosity, purposefulness. Agree, very important qualities. Contribute in every way to their development, encourage the little why in his research.
Step 4
Between 6 and 12 years old, the child learns to set goals and achieve them. Diligence and perseverance develops. Perhaps you should maintain these qualities in him. Try to monitor his progress in school, but without pressure. The child must understand that it is in his best interest to get good grades. His future depends on the level of his education.
Step 5
One of the most difficult age periods is adolescence. At this stage, help the children find their identity. At this age, the guys strive for creative realization. Do not block this search for yourself, do not lock the child only within his responsibilities. Learn to listen to him and understand what he wants. Support his positive initiatives, trying to protect him from unwanted communication and bad habits. Engage your teenager with your own positive example.
