Love is a wonderful feeling that fills every cell of our body with happiness and peace. Love pushes people to different, at times, crazy actions, it "inspires" and excites the blood. If you have never experienced such feelings, perhaps now is the time to truly fall in love and find a soul mate who will also love you.
Instructions
Step 1
Above all, to truly fall in love, reach the age when that kind of love is possible. Of course, all ages are submissive to love, but love is very different, and for truly mature love it is still necessary to become an adult.
Step 2
Create the conditions under which love is possible. Love is often impossible without a number of conditions, such as social (that is, the environment in which a person lives and is brought up), family, material, communal, and so on.
Step 3
Understand that platonic love is a very, very rare kind of love, found mainly only in books. Love is always associated with some of its physiological manifestations, do not be afraid of this thought.
Step 4
Think carefully and determine what characteristics your love object should have. How old he should be, how he should look, what interests he should have - think over everything to the smallest detail.
Step 5
Just do not idealize the image of your future lover in your head, do not make too high demands, otherwise you will be looking for a partner for a relationship for a very, very long time. After you have compiled a rough portrait of your future lover, try to find a suitable candidate in your social circle.
Step 6
Don't try to buy love. Even if you have a lot, a lot of money. You can buy a person, but not his love - it never worked.
Step 7
If you started a relationship, remember that in a relationship, both partners should become better and happier. If you feel that one of you is starting to pull the other down, then it is unlikely that something good will come out of such a relationship.
Step 8
Do not try to change the object of your love in accordance with the ideas that you have about it. If a person does not meet some of your requirements, or if you are not satisfied with some of his character traits, then it is better to learn to accept them. After all, it is quite possible that something in you will not suit your loved one either. Imagine how it would be for you if he wants to change you? Learn to accept each other for who you are.
Step 9
Don't let your object of love treat you badly and humiliate you. If you allow him to do this even once, then later you simply will not be able to convince him that this should not be done.
Step 10
Don't become addicted to your loved one. Both of you should be equally dependent on each other.
Step 11
Drop jealousy. Attacks of jealousy towards everyone, constant surveillance, tantrums and pressure on a loved one will not allow building a normal relationship.
