People sometimes do stupid things, causing pain to the most beloved and dear ones. This pain is difficult to get through, and you yourself must decide for yourself whether to forgive the person or not.
Instructions
Step 1
If your loved one has hurt you, you don't have to keep it to yourself. Gather all your strength into a fist and try to talk to him. Explain what exactly you are unhappy with, what his act gave you such negative emotions. Say that you love your abuser, but do not want this to happen again. You must convey to him how much your feelings are hurt. Most likely, your significant other will realize their mistake, experience a sense of shame, apologize to you and do everything to ensure that such situations no longer occur in your relationship.
Step 2
After a sincere confession and sincere repentance of your loved one and loved one, you have a choice: to forgive or not to forgive. It all depends only on what exactly the person did, and whether you are ready to accept him after such an act. If you value your relationship, chances are you will make the decision to restore peace and harmony to it.
Step 3
If you do decide to forgive the offender, try never to remind him of what happened again, otherwise you will constantly quarrel and hurt each other. After you reconcile, work together on the mistakes. No matter what happens between you, only one person cannot be to blame. Most likely, there is a share of your fault in what happened.
Step 4
Improve relationships with each other. Start to respect and care for your significant other. Learn to spend time together not only at home, but in other places as well. Have fun and relaxation more often in the company of your loved one and your mutual friends. Rejoice in any pleasant little things and go through life with a smile. Not paying attention to problems and difficulties, but will overcome them together, it will harden your relationship and make you an inseparable couple. When harmony and happiness reign between you, none of you will allow yourself to hurt your dear person.
Step 5
If you are not ready to forgive a loved one, who, albeit not consciously, but still hurt you very much, and decide to part with him because of this, the most important thing is, do not hold any grudge against him in the future. Let him go and wish you sincere happiness and prosperity, if not with you, then with someone else. If you constantly remember your grievances, your pain will destroy you from the inside, so you will not be able to build new relationships that will make you happy.
