Some people, entering into relationships, still have not forgotten their past love. This interferes with living in the present, enjoying feelings and hurting the new chosen one. Sometimes you need a helping hand to continue enjoying life.
Instructions
Step 1
Show patience and understanding with your girlfriend. If you rush or press on her, she may withdraw into herself or take offense at you. It takes time to forget past love, as well as the support of a loved one.
Step 2
Let her talk and find out as much as possible about your predecessor. By talking about her ex-boyfriend, she will be able to look at him from a different angle, thanks to your comments. Gently highlight the bad sides of him. She might not have paid attention to the fact that he was often late, never gave gifts or called back, but she will notice this when talking to you. Consider the listed disadvantages and learn from his mistakes. Find out what she liked about him so you can use it to your advantage.
Step 3
Remove all reminders about it. It is advisable to remove photographs of the ex, all his gifts and memorabilia from her apartment. When walking, avoid places where they were happy. Show her a different world, discover new areas of the city and interesting institutions.
Step 4
Find a new joint activity. The girl needs to unwind in order to forget about her worries. Find out what she would like to do, preferably together. A great option is pair dances. You will spend a lot of time together, it is interesting and fun, it makes you feel close to your partner. It is important to choose what will really interest the girl.
Step 5
Expand her circle of acquaintances by introducing her to your friends. It is advisable to warn in advance about her vulnerable condition so that they would be more friendly with her. A friendly company, a fun pastime and new acquaintances are a good way to emerge from bad memories.
Step 6
Show love and give it attention. Feeling your care, she will be pleased, she will feel loved and will be able to quickly part with the past. Compliment, give cute gifts, spend more time together. Become a part of her life and supplant the past.
