How is love born? Why do people love each other? Scientists and writers, artists and philosophers have been struggling to solve this mystery for centuries. And the lovers continue to love, sometimes without realizing themselves why this particular person has become so dear and necessary.
Are they loved for their advantages or disadvantages?
They love a person not at all because he is handsome, smart, talented, earns good money and does not have bad habits. They just love him because he is in the world. Anyone who falls in love with someone's dignity runs the risk of becoming a victim of disappointment. Indeed, at the early stage of falling in love, people tend to idealize their chosen one. It is quite different if a person sees all his shortcomings, but continues to love even for them.
Mutual love is wonderful when people live for each other, and everyone tries to make their loved one happy. However, it often happens that one of the partners loves, and the other only allows himself to be loved. Of course, one of them is selfish, but the one who truly loves is able to forgive everything and be happy only with his own, even if unrequited feeling.
Often, mutual sympathy is born if people become interested in communicating with each other. But when they really fall in love, it is good for them even to just be silent together. Love is born not during nights full of violent passion, but during calm, unhurried walks, when people just hold each other's hand.
Sometimes very young girls cynically argue that you cannot live with love alone, that you need to find a wealthy person who is firmly on his feet. However, when a real feeling comes, it does not matter at all how much money a person has, whether he has the opportunity to bring armfuls of flowers and take his chosen one to expensive restaurants.
How is love different from passion?
People sometimes confuse true love and a sudden outbreak of passion, although it is quite easy to distinguish between them. When they truly love a person, first of all, they want him to be happy, even with someone else. And the indispensable desire to possess it is a strong, but fleeting passion.
Passion is most often caused by external attractiveness, but a person can get seriously ill, get into an accident, and even just start to grow old. Then the outburst of passion will quickly fade away, and the one who is still healthy and good-looking will find a new object for himself.
There are many people with whom you can feel good when there are no problems in life. If trouble knocks on the door, you need to have a loving and reliable person nearby who will never betray and help overcome any difficulties.
Every person should have someone who loves and accepts him as he is. Then he will feel protected from any hardships and shocks in life.
