A common reason for a divorce initiated by a woman is the difficult nature of the husband, his constant dissatisfaction with his wife and reproaches. But how good your marriage relationship will be depends on the efforts of both spouses.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to talk to your husband calmly. Perhaps now he is not having the best period in his life, for example, troubles at work or health problems, so he is not so much dissatisfied with his wife as with the situation in general. Try to determine the cause of his behavior, pessimistic mood, depression. And then make an effort to restore the zest for life to your beloved man.
Step 2
Ask your spouse directly what he is not comfortable with in your family life. When he rebukes you, for example, for a badly ironed shirt or a bad dinner, explain to him that these are all small things. Ask him a specific question: "What do you dislike about me?" Say that you want to change for the better, that you do not want to destroy family relationships, but for this you need to know what exactly caused his reproaches. A direct question will make a man think.
Step 3
Do not allow yourself to be frustrated, scandalous and offended. Do not under any circumstances point out his mistakes in response. This will only make the situation worse. Agree with him from time to time. Promise that next time you will do it the way he wants. However, you have the right to count on your husband's respect for you and your work.
Step 4
Show him that you are doing your best to please him in your daily life. Praise yourself, for example: "Look, I gave birth to a baby and was able to keep the perfect shape so you can be proud of me" or "I ironed your suit so that you look perfect tomorrow at work."
Step 5
Do not react to criticism so painfully. When you get annoyed, upset, or swearing, you give your husband a reason to find fault with you again. Let his grumbling deafen, do not let him ruin your good mood. You will prove to yourself and to your husband what a strong, self-sufficient woman you are. Give yourself some rest, throw away household chores and relax.
