What and how should you talk to a guy? These questions will certainly arise before a girl who likes a young man. After all, a lot depends on the outcome of their first conversation. If the girl does not impress the guy, especially if she seems boring, boring or, on the contrary, too talkative, frivolous, he is unlikely to want to communicate with her again.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to keep the golden mean. Young people do not like overly restrained, squeezed girls. But in the same way, they do not like it when a girl behaves frivolously, cheekily. Keep calm, naturally. Don't be nervous, nobody will eat you.
Step 2
Also try to not have anything like arrogance, disdain in your behavior, tone. Guys can afford a lot to girls, but they are not forgiven for this.
Step 3
Remember that young people have a very different range of interests than girls. If you want him to be interesting with you, try to inquire about him in advance. Find out what his hobbies and hobbies are. Start a conversation about a topic that is close to him, and not to you. It makes no sense to try to interest a guy, arguing, for example, about shopping, fashion or gossiping about whom your friend Dasha fell in love with.
Step 4
Do not forget, too, that guys hate the “beat around the bush” inherent in many of the fairer sex, constantly getting lost in some minor or even irrelevant details. For a girl, there is nothing strange, all the more reprehensible, and the young man gets very irritated: how long you can wander in three pines, is it really difficult to get to the point right away. Therefore, try to be short, convincing, and not distracted. This may not be easy for you, but it is necessary. You are communicating with a guy, not with your girlfriends.
Step 5
Try to talk less and listen to the young person more. Look carefully at the guy, sometimes ask clarifying questions. Do not forget about sign language, about the miraculous power of a warm and sincere smile. Your task: to make the guy feel good, comfortable in your company. Then, for sure, your first conversation will not be the last.
