The problem of misunderstanding between two generations - the problem of fathers and children - is as old as the world. But at all times, communication and building long-term trusting relationships between parents and children have been the key to solving this problem.
Instructions
Step 1
One of the most common reasons for parents' tough attitudes toward children is concern about their future. Therefore, devote them to your plans for the near and more distant future. Explain reasonably what, how and why you are going to do it. If they disagree with you, ask them to explain the reasons for your disagreement. Argue based on logical conclusions, life facts and examples, not emotions and desires. Show them your success in realizing your plans for the future, brag about your achievements.
Step 2
If you are still financially dependent on your parents, try to get out of this addiction. This will show that you are already able to live without their care and make decisions on your own. If you are still a teenager, start helping with housekeeping. Do the best you can without being reminded. In the eyes of your parents, you will look more independent, more mature. Your opinion will be reckoned with.
Step 3
Misunderstanding is often the result of children's inattention to their parents. Remember that you love your parents more often. Return spirituality, morality, benevolence, sincerity to the relationship between you. Pay attention to your parents, talk to them more often, take an interest in their life. Try to understand their problems and experiences, their relationship to various aspects of our life, their relationship to different aspects of the worldview. If your parents see you trying to understand them, they will respond in kind.
Step 4
If you have a misunderstanding on a particular issue, try to look at it through the eyes of your parents. It is possible that after this you will find the necessary arguments that can convince them that you are right. This will quickly lead to the best solution for you, than if you just shout: "I want it!". Ask your parents more often about their youth. Ask about what problems they had in those days and how they looked at them. It is also useful for the older generation to remember themselves in their youth.
