When you meet, a request to tell about yourself is natural and largely determines the further development of relations. It is important to present basic information about yourself in a winning light, make a good impression and answer all the questions that interest the interlocutor.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to think in advance about the answer to the request to tell you about yourself. Analyze yourself, your life and hobbies. Highlight the most interesting moments, write them down on a piece of paper and practice how you will tell. Remember this information so as not to get confused when you hear such a question.
Step 2
Try to speak confidently, without stuttering or getting confused in phrases. The main thing is not to worry, because you are not in an interview. Don't try to retell episodes from your life in sequence, give them interest. Add fun stories, jokes, or interesting remarks to the story.
Step 3
Tell us about your hobbies, success in your endeavors, your outlook on the future, and your main hobbies. If you have common interests with a young man, focus on this and devote more time to this moment.
Step 4
Try not to talk too long, so as not to bore the other person. Do not drag out the story, do not dwell in too much detail on trifles. Watch the reaction. By the look of the listener, you will understand how interesting to him what you are telling. If he gets bored, talk about other interests.
Step 5
Do not make up information about yourself, try to speak honestly and frankly. You can only slightly embellish reality or keep silent about some shortcomings that are not of fundamental importance. But do not tell completely the opposite information about yourself, hoping that, having learned the truth, he will not go anywhere.
Step 6
Try to avoid talking about your problems. When you meet, you should not talk about your illnesses, an unpleasant employee or failures at work. Try to give the impression of someone with a pleasant life who doesn't try to overwhelm you with your problems at the first meeting.
Step 7
Don't talk about past relationships and ex-partners. Don't give details about the number of guys you've dated. Don't criticize or give rave reviews about them. If this issue is not brought up on a date, it is better not to talk about previous relationships at all.
