There comes a time in the lives of many married couples when divorce is inevitable. The spouses have tortured each other enough, parting in this case is the best way out. At least they think so. They negotiate and divorce peacefully. But what to do if a man wants to divorce, and the woman does not know about his decision. In this case, the man has been tormented by the question of how to tell his wife about the divorce for a long time.
Instructions
Step 1
Consider the course of the conversation well in advance of the explanation. Draw a diagram in your mind. Thus, he will be really serious. In this case, you can talk to your wife "like two adults."
Step 2
Don't plan on having a conversation with your wife in the morning. This is the time when everyone is in a hurry, and a quiet time is needed for such a conversation.
Step 3
Be sure to provide detailed explanations related to your feelings. Say that everything was good between you. That you have always respected and appreciated her as a wife and, of course, as a woman. Try to explain that something has gone out of your relationship. In order not to bring torment to each other, but to preserve what exists today, you are no longer able to stay together.
Step 4
Formulate the words clearly. This is necessary so that the woman does not have any hopes and misunderstandings. In no case do not develop the topic of other established relationships - it will lead nowhere. The main thing is that this topic will not lead your conversation to a peaceful course. In this case, the conversation for which you were preparing so much will end again with hysteria and tears. Just tell your wife that the "leftist" relationship is no longer important, it is only important that your relationship as a wife and husband has come to an end.
Step 5
Smoothly move on to the question of children. Tell them that your children are a treasure and they need you. Promise to take care of them. Say that you hope for her understanding that she will not want to deprive the children of their father's attention just on the basis that you are no longer husband and wife. Ensure that financially, children are never abandoned.
Step 6
Offer to stay in good relations for the sake of the children. Don't offer friendship - that's problematic.
