The child should have his own personal space, which he will manage at his own request and understanding. But how to make sure that the child takes care of his own room on his own, puts it in order?
Children's space is an integral part of the entire apartment, in which parents put things in order. So the child must not only be provided with his own corner, but also be taught how to use it so that not only the child is comfortable, but also his original order does not cause inconvenience to others. How to do it?
To begin with, it is worthwhile to clearly understand that each adult in the house and the child may have a different understanding of the order. To some, it seems like something like a hospital ward, to others it is just a slight extension of the passage in the room from the door to the window and the bed. To start a dialogue, it is important to remember that all parties to the dialogue are absolutely equal. That is, if you require a child to do everything the way you need to, but it is unpleasant for the child, he will have alienation, expressed in an indifferent attitude towards order, the general living space.
The main thing to do is to explain in as much detail as possible your order requirements and their importance. It is not necessary to force the child to arrange a general cleaning every day, so you can only instill in him a dislike for order in general. But the rules (for everyone!) Should be clear, clear, unambiguous. It is in this case that there will be no disagreement over the results.
