How successful the first date goes depends on both partners. Of course, it is not at all necessary for a woman, and sometimes even undesirable, to seize the initiative at such moments, but she should monitor her behavior so that her gentleman likes the meeting.
Inappropriate topics for a first date
The most important thing not to do during your first romantic meeting is to choose inappropriate topics for conversation. Don't talk about your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend or your failed relationship. Most likely, if the acquaintance continues and develops into a closer relationship, you will discuss such topics, but they are completely unsuitable for a first date.
You should not complain about other men, or even more so to speak enthusiastically about them. Avoid comparing guys with your interlocutor, otherwise there is a high risk that he will not go on a second date.
It is worth refraining from discussing intimate issues. If a man insists on talking about such topics, you may not want to continue talking to him. The same goes for sex on the first date. Of course, there are times when such a quick turn of events is appropriate, but if you dream of a serious relationship, it is better to wait a little with the transition to close contact.
When communicating with a man on the first date, you should not give negative assessments of his tastes and preferences, say unflattering things about his education, work, etc. If you are talking about such topics, try to be very careful in expressions, otherwise the very first date may end quarrel and mutual resentment.
Behavioral mistakes on the first date
Try not to be late, and if you are late, do not make the man wait long. Your boyfriend will probably be excited anyway, and if he has to wait half an hour for your arrival, in addition, this may have a bad effect on his mood and desire to please you.
It is especially not recommended to be late for a long time if you have agreed to meet on the street, and the weather cannot be called pleasant.
During a date, all your attention should be devoted to the man. Checking your phone every five minutes, accessing the Internet from your communicator, calling someone and texting - all this is not worth doing. This behavior is offensive to the person you are talking to. The same applies to cases when a girl often interrupts a man and constantly seeks to talk about herself, completely not interested in him.
Finally, remember that there must be a mystery in you. You do not need to give all the information about yourself on the first date and immediately open all the cards. Of course, a man should have a certain image, but nothing more! It will be better if he continues to solve you at the next meeting.
