There are situations in life when two people apply for love at once. And the heart is not a stone: it seems that it reciprocates to both. However, relationships have to be built with one person. How do you know who you love more?
It is necessary
- - photos;
- - journey.
Instructions
Step 1
Distance yourself from both applicants for a while. Great feeling is seen from a distance, so it's good to go on a journey. When daily communication does not press on you, there will be time to sort out feelings. Ask your gentlemen not to call you while you are away. It's even better to turn off the phone completely so that nothing interferes with tune in the desired mood. Of course, Internet correspondence and other types of contacts should also be excluded.
Step 2
Take photos of both of your loved ones with you, but for the time being, try not to catch your eye.
Step 3
So that the decision-making is not influenced by momentary emotions, temporarily switch your thoughts from the main problem - the choice - to the perception of the impressions of the trip. Persistently drive away thoughts of people who are waiting for you at home. Communicate more with others, admire the beauty that opens up. Force yourself to live “in the here and now” and not in dreams of the future.
Step 4
After 1 to 2 weeks, depending on how long you have organized the trip, on your way home, allow yourself to think about your feelings for the first time. Take out the photos you have in store and, looking at them, compare which of the two you will be more happy with. Also note to yourself, when you look at whose photo, your heart beat faster, and you were worried.
Step 5
If you still find it difficult to make your choice unambiguously, use an effective psychological technique. Close your eyes and be transported to another reality. Imagine that you, along with both of your beloved, fell into the hands of evil natives who hate men, but worship women. And so, your gentlemen were placed on the top of a mountain over an abyss, and you are standing behind them. You have been warned that you can only hold one hand and save one. The decision must be made instantly. The person in favor of whom you have made the choice is obvious and there is the one whom you love more.
