Some girls complain: it's just impossible to talk to guys! You are trying to frankly find out how serious his intentions are - or generally avoids answering, or answers inappropriately. You try to talk to him, tell about something, so he demonstrates with all his appearance that he is not interested in it. The girls are embarrassed by this, sometimes it hurts them to tears. They have doubts about the sincerity of the guys' feelings: is this how they behave with those they love? But the whole point is that the girls just spoke the wrong way!
Instructions
Step 1
Don't expect your boyfriend to be interested in something that your girlfriend would probably be interested in! Topics that 99% of girls will discuss excitedly with burning eyes, 99% of guys cause yawning at best, and poorly hidden irritation at worst. Well, deeply "on the drum" them, in what blouse Lenka came to the lecture, with whom Svetka kissed, is there any reason for Nadya's jealousy. Hence the conclusion: if you want a young man to willingly talk to you, choose topics that are interesting to him, and not to you!
Step 2
Remember that guys just hate rhetorical, meaningless (again, from their point of view, not from your point of view) questions. They are firmly convinced that over and over again, almost every day, only a person who has problems with either mind or memory can ask the same question. A purely feminine ability to answer such questions, wandering around the bush, getting lost in secondary details, they are naturally deprived of!
Step 3
Therefore, dear girls, refrain from the desire to ask endless questions all the time: "How are you?" and even: "Do you love me?" Even if you really want to hear the voice of your loved one again. Better ask a very specific question regarding a very specific problem that the guy is currently busy with, and you do not have to complain about his silence.
Step 4
Finally, the girl's quite natural and understandable desire to find out: are the guy's intentions serious, whether to prepare for the wedding? But very often, instead of leading him to this idea with a truly feminine art, so that he himself took the initiative, the girl takes the position of an aggressive accuser: “I want to finally make it clear!”, “My patience has run out, I need an answer! Naturally, a young man who is made to feel guilty will instinctively “bristle” and avoid this conversation in every possible way.
Step 5
Girls, remember: not only do you dislike being “cornered”! Oddly enough, guys hate it either. In general, behave correctly, and then the guys will not be so difficult to bring to a frank conversation!
