A rare family can boast of a cloudless relationship throughout their married life. Reasons for small quarrels, and even large conflicts, from time to time arise even between truly loving people. This is a reality, and no one is immune from family troubles. The main thing is to find ways for reconciliation as soon as possible.
Instructions
Step 1
When clarifying the relationship, give only those arguments that were the reason for the conflict in this situation. There is no need to remember the previous faults of your other half. For example, if you are annoyed that your spouse turned on the sound on the TV too loudly, just say so directly. Do not generalize: "You do everything to my harm, today the TV is screaming at full power, and the day before yesterday you did not take out the trash on time!" Such statements will not lead to anything good, but will only add fuel to the flames of the flaring up conflict.
Step 2
Never get personal. A loud TV is not a reason to accuse your loved one of being rude, selfish, or inattentive. Do not mention in the analysis the reasons for the conflict between relatives and friends of your other half. "You turn on the TV loudly because your mom raised you badly!" Such a phrase is completely useless and can serve as a reason for a long hidden resentment in the soul of your soulmate.
Step 3
The best way to prevent conflict in such a situation is to reasonably explain to another person why his actions are not to your liking. “Darling, please turn down the TV sound. I want to fall asleep (read, work, etc.), and it really bothers me. Your spouse is unlikely to be able to refuse a polite request, and there will be no reason for a quarrel. The best way to avoid conflicts is not to give them a reason for them to arise. Politeness and mutual respect are the foundation of a strong family.
