Mom is the most important person who brings up a son. Much depends only on how she explains to him the concept of life, how she will take care of and develop. You need to teach your child independence and responsibility for his actions, and not encourage him in everything, cultivating irresponsibility and the title of "mama's son."
Instructions
Step 1
Not separating yourself and your child. Do not talk about your son and yourself in the plural "we": we decided, we ate. Remember, there are two separate and unique personalities - you and your son.
Step 2
Feeling of the constant presence of the mother. Think about how much privacy you give your son. It is not necessary to fill the child's whole life with the image of the mother - there should be a place for others in it.
Step 3
Hyper-care. Do not make your son the center of the whole world and the meaning of your existence. Yes, he can catch a cold or smear his knees, but you should not make a tragedy out of this.
Step 4
The desire to protect from all adversity. It is inherent in every mother, but try to dose such impulses. In some case, it is appropriate to protect the baby from offenders, but you should not constantly blame them for your son's failures.
Step 5
The cult of the child. Think about whether you consider the child your property, whether you want to share his attention with other people. Remember that in later life, he will not be able to play the role of head of the family or be a reasonable boss.
Step 6
Power and despotism are the enemies of correct upbringing. Not only do you control every step and do not allow decisions to be made. From such children, as a rule, men grow up who are not able to bear responsibility for their actions.
Step 7
Mom's sons, as a rule, are infantile and do not want to be adults. In terms of career, one should not expect professional growth from them - he cannot do anything without his mother. Don't expect him to want a family relationship if his mom doesn't like you.
Step 8
There are only two opinions: mom's and wrong - this is the position of "mama's sons". The first person he turns to is mom. Following her advice, and not always true, a man will destroy his personal life.
Step 9
Mother's whims are fulfilled with lightning speed, and men do not find this strange. They are not at all interested in how to get rid of overprotection and despotism.
Step 10
Most often, such men have problems with their personal life. The parent firmly strengthened the postulate in their minds that only mother is able to accept him for who he is, and everyone else is looking for benefits.
Step 11
“Mama's Sons” are not able to change their lives. They will send their resume to another company or move to another city if their mother is the initiator.
