Some men get so used to telling lies that for them it becomes a norm of life and a habit, like smoking or daily brushing their teeth. Most often, such qualities are manifested in married men who lie to their wives or hide the real state of affairs from them. It is worth noting that lying does not have to be associated with cheating, but the wife should still worry, as trust is lost in the relationship with the other half.
Of course, women really don't like it when their husbands lie, especially if it happens on a regular basis. What can be done to wean a loved one from this bad habit and return him to the path of truth and virtue? There are several ways, but first you need to find out the reason why the husband does not want to tell his wife the truth. This can be either a habit that a man "contracted" in childhood, or a deliberate lie, when the spouse categorically does not want his other half to be aware of his big and small secrets.
To rid her husband of constant lies, a woman should choose one of the following tactics:
1. Sometimes in a relationship with a deceitful spouse, a scandal arranged by his faithful can be effective. Moreover, some women themselves get pleasure from this process and consider it an effective influence on the husband's behavior. But in fact, scandals have a short-term effect on the lying spouse, who, after such a storm of emotions, thrown out on him by his wife, may hide for a while, but later will start to lie again, and more sophisticatedly, more carefully thinking over every word he said to his wife, so that do not fall for lies.
2. A woman can mirror the lie to her husband and tell her own lie in response to his lie. Over time, a man will understand why this is happening and reflect on his behavior. Most of the stronger sex hate it when their significant other lies, and in this case, the woman will do it for show. A man will have no choice but to sit down with his beloved at a "round table" and during negotiations to dot all i's and stop mutual lies.
3. Accept your spouse as he is. All normal men want to be loved and understood by their wives. They enjoy it when the other half is happy about their success and shares their hobbies. Do not "nag" your husband if he is going to a football match. Better go to the stadium with him. If he is tired after work and decides to lie in front of the TV, hug him and lie down next to him, preferably in silence. If he wants, he will speak to you himself. Does your husband like to collect model airplanes or trains? Give him a construction kit as a gift. Such an understanding and caring wife is unlikely to want to lie.
4. Finally, be honest with him. It is impossible to build happiness in a family without trusting relationships. Both parties should be open to dialogue, only in this case mutual understanding can be achieved. If you find fault with your husband for the most innocent lies or bragging, you will achieve nothing other than his isolation in himself and unwillingness to tell you about anything. If a woman trusts a man, then it will be easier for him to tell the truth, no matter how unpleasant or contradictory it may be.
