According to statistics, every third couple is getting divorced today. A very dangerous and unpleasant tendency. Perhaps the point is too active feminization, perhaps too rapidly developing progress. And perhaps the reason for such a number of divorces lies in the general fatigue from the frantic pace of modern life. Family preservation is possible only thanks to the efforts of two people, their desire to restore feelings and a healthy atmosphere in the family.
Instructions
Step 1
Set goals correctly. Of course, given the current situation, there is some self-doubt, but if there are doubts, how can you convince others of something? The best option is to make a list of your own questions, for example, "Why should I strive for this?" Then you will have to give your own answers to all your "why", and only in this way it will be possible to comprehend your true desire - whether you need to return the relationship back or not.
Step 2
Be yourself. Express your feelings openly and do not be afraid of being judged by others. What is the point of being an instrument of someone's convictions, someone's will? First, it is still impossible to please everyone. Secondly, it is simply disgusting to constantly adjust to others and play someone else's role. Sincerity is what really helps to sort out your own feelings and build relationships with the world around you.
Step 3
Trust yourself. Another sign of self-confidence is complete faith in yourself and your strength. Remember, whatever is done is for the best. The preservation of the family does not at all mean the complete subordination of one and the absolute supremacy of the other partner. Marriage is an equal union, and only the equality of partners, their self- and mutual respect, mutual understanding can prevent a breakup.
Step 4
Remember that no matter how the relationship with your partner develops further, you have not only responsibilities, but also rights. If you yourself do not stand up for them, no one else will do it for you.
Step 5
And the last, no matter how trite this hackneyed phrase may sound, try to find a common language with each other. If both of you are genuinely interested in keeping your marriage together, you and your partner will try to understand each other and find a compromise.
