You have been living with a girl for a long time together. It seems that they have already got to know each other thoroughly and are confident in her as in themselves. You are already thinking about a full-fledged family with children, family trips to the circus and trips to the country. But how can you tell a girl about your dreams?
Instructions
Step 1
Many guys are afraid to directly tell girls that they want to have a child in order to create a full-fledged family. It seems to them that they will look ridiculous, declaring this to their beloved. In fact, this is a very crucial moment in a relationship. The desire to have children suggests that your feelings have reached a new stage of development. That you really really love this person and want to spend your whole life with her.
Step 2
But before you say it out loud, you must think it over well. Do you have such an opportunity to talk about the birth of a new person? Are you ready for the hardships that await young parents?
Step 3
The birth of children will radically change the whole way of the previous life. Even before birth, you should be prepared for some changes in the body and psyche of the expectant mother. You will have to support her morally and help her physically. Sometimes girls have a hard time tolerating their first pregnancy, so be prepared to constantly visit the district clinic and counseling centers with her, take care and show heightened signs of attention.
Step 4
With the birth of a little man, your life will become much richer with household chores. You will have to come home early to help with childcare, donate your evening gatherings with friends over a beer at the bar. Refuse to attend a football match. You may even have to cut back on business trips.
Step 5
The material aspect of the issue is also important. All these fancy strollers, diapers and various baby knick-knacks cost a lot of money. You may even have to hire a childcare assistant for the first time, and this is still an additional cost. Are you ready to support your family? This is what you need to think about before such a responsible step.
Step 6
If all these difficulties do not scare you, you have thought it over carefully and are ready to take responsibility for the unborn child, then one evening create a romantic atmosphere and tenderly say: "Darling, I want us to have a child." And you will see how the eyes of your beloved sparkle with happiness. After all, she has long wanted to tell you the same thing. And when, after a certain time, you have a child, he will be the happiest, because he was conceived in a mutual desire.
