Wise people advise that if a person cannot change circumstances, he should change his attitude towards them. In the event that we are talking about the shortcomings of your partner, then, apparently, they are not very serious, since their presence did not affect your decision to associate yourself with a close relationship with this person. If you want to make him almost perfect and educate him in your own way, you need to act very carefully, carefully and, most importantly, gradually.
Instructions
Step 1
Never use methods and techniques to educate your partner that can only cause bewilderment or a desire to spite you. Big mistake. which many girls commit, is the rejection of sex. Intimate relationships should never be a reason for manipulation, if you do not want your pupil to go to another caregiver. Silence also looks silly - you are not in kindergarten to blow your lips. Adult relationships also involve adult ways of resolving conflicts.
Step 2
When you dislike certain traits and habits of your partner, try to calmly talk to him and explain exactly which moments and why cause your rejection. Please note that different people may relate to the same phenomenon in different ways, and this is largely due to the traditions and habits laid down in childhood, in the family where your partner was brought up. That is why the conversation should not be built as an accusation of wrong upbringing and should be conducted very tactfully.
Step 3
If it really matters, ask your partner to change their behavior, but don't be categorical. Overnight, no one can reconsider and discard habits. In the event that your loved one realizes that this is not a whim and not a whim of your bad character or imagination, he will try to correct his behavior if he is not indifferent to you and your relationship. But you must be prepared for the fact that he, in turn, may ask you to correct and correct something in his behavior. This should be perceived by you as the norm and not be a reason for offense if you plan to continue to be together.
Step 4
Remember that the motivation for educational measures should be love and a desire to protect your feelings, and not the requirement to adapt to someone else. Using husbands of friends or heroes of TV shows as an example, you risk hearing from your partner a desire to go to them if he does not suit you.
Step 5
People form couples if they are comfortable with each other, not only in bed, but also in life. Try for your desire to re-educate a person and make him perfect, do not miss the moment when such communication will become a burden for him and you. Accept each other and love as you are, and living together will make adjustments to both yours and his upbringing, if you listen and hear each other.
