You were inseparable. We made plans for a joint future. They could not imagine life without him, such a necessary thing as heat, water and air. But love has passed, and now you feel bored and uninteresting with him. How do you explain that your relationship has come to a logical conclusion?
Instructions
Step 1
Parting with a loved one is always difficult. Perhaps you have lost interest in him, the relationship does not bring the former joys, mutual understanding is gone, you move away and become strangers. But all the same, this person is close to vases, and the desire to relieve him of pain is quite natural.
Step 2
First of all, determine for yourself whether the decision to break up is made by you finally or not. Maybe you are acting on emotions, and then you will regret for a long time about the perfect deed and cry bitter tears.
Step 3
Never leave a person's life in silence. Explain why this is how it turned out. You have no feelings, and it is pointless to continue the relationship. Try not to break up by phone or SMS, ICQ, social media, farewell emails. Isn't a person so beloved and dear up to this moment worthy of human farewell?
Step 4
Don't ask him to remain friends. Even if you really want it, be patient. Your ex is now in a lot of trouble and pain. It is unlikely that he will be in a friendly mood. Wait. Time will pass, and he himself will decide whether to renew the relationship with you or stop completely. Give him a sober choice.
Step 5
No need to do nasty things: spread rumors about him, flirt with other men in front of him. After all, you and this person were connected for some time with some feelings, anxious relationship, so why cross it out with such petty dirty tricks. May his memories of you remain bright. Let him talk about you with a smile on his face, even a little sad.
Step 6
You need to be able to do everything with dignity and beauty, even to part. A person can be judged by how they end the relationship. And the more noble you do this, the better people will think of you. And wouldn't it be easier for you to live, knowing that you have not offended anyone, that you have no enemy in the person of your ex-boyfriend?
