Usually, people who either once suffered from unrequited love or who were cruelly deceived by their beloved stop believing in love. And now, in order not to get into a situation in which they felt humiliated and helpless again, these unfortunates deny the very fact of the existence of love. However, deep down, they themselves feel that this is not so.
Necessary
psychology books
Instructions
Step 1
If you find yourself in a similar situation and, on the one hand, you want new, trusting relationships, and on the other hand, you have forgotten how to trust the opposite sex, you need to overcome yourself. To begin with, from the moment of the breakup, a sufficient amount of time must pass (preferably at least six months) for the pain, resentment and desire to return the previous relationship to pass.
Step 2
After a new mutual sympathy arises, do not force things. Spend a lot of time together, go for walks, watch your favorite movies, talk about things that are important to you. When your new lover finds out about the trauma that your previous relationship caused you, he will begin to treat you more carefully and more attentively. Thus, you will become not only lovers, but also close friends, and this is the basis of a trusting relationship in which you can open your soul and love in full force.
Step 3
If you fall in love with a person who assures everyone that he does not believe in love, and makes cynical remarks about a tender relationship, do not rush to get upset. You will have to stock up on understanding and patience and learn to independently notice those moments when a feeling flares up between you, since your half will deny everything. Reading books on psychology will help, so you can better understand how your passion is feeling.
Step 4
It is possible that the person you like will try to throw out on you all the resentment and aggression that has accumulated in him during the previous relationship. In such a situation, only patience, gentleness and wisdom will help you. Know that the outburst of aggression will end soon, and the person will be grateful to you for listening to him and not rejecting him.
Step 5
It doesn't matter if you yourself want to believe in love again, or if you want your beloved to believe in love, the main thing is not to hope for a quick result, to stock up on time, patience and a desire to get a result.
