Popular wisdom says: "To get married is not to attack, as if it were not lost in marriage." In any close and family relationship, there are moments of misunderstanding, cooling, irritation and fatigue. Especially in those that relate to love and the intimate sphere. Knowing when such situations may arise, you can be prepared for them in advance.
There are several critical periods in family life.
3 months
Living together is able to bring to the extreme point of patience with little things: dirty socks of the faithful scattered around the apartment or an impressive army of jars with masks and wife's creams in the bathroom. It turns out that my wife's cutlets are not as tasty as my mother's. And the husband behind him is not able to wash the plate and, in principle, does not take out a bucket of garbage.
It's time to sit down at the negotiating table and, with a grain of humor, write notes of protest to each other - what annoys you and what you are willing to put up with for the sake of love.
1 year
Passions subsided and went back to normal. You didn't love less. Your senses have been transformed into a new stage. This, of course, is not necessary to be afraid, as well as sound the alarm. It is already worth giving up attempts to re-educate your soul mate. After all, a family is not personal comfort to the detriment of others, but joint efforts to implement common ideas and tasks.
3 years
There is no novelty and former intrigue in intimate life. It seems that everything is boring, the desire is fading away. It's time for a romantic shake-up, scenarios and games. Use your imagination, drop false embarrassment, and fantasize together.
7 years
According to the statistics of divorce, this is a dangerous time. When resentments, irritation accumulate and the idea of burning bridges becomes more and more obsessive.
If you have enough wisdom, tact and patience to meet each other, try to understand your partner, then you will have a chance to be a strong exemplary family in the eyes of others.
12-15 years of marriage
Spouses may be tempted to break out of the endless groundhog day by trying a new relationship on the side. In such a situation, there are two solutions: the wisest one is not to succumb to momentary weaknesses and not to be led by provocations; the second is to understand, accept, and sincerely forgive.
20-25 years of marriage
Such a date is a great achievement for both spouses, which you can be proud of. As a rule, this is already a strong indissoluble union, built on the unity of souls, thoughts, tasks, thoughts, imbued with trust and respect for each other. It is almost impossible to destroy it.
No matter how many people live together, they will always face relationship problems. The most important thing in such a situation is to be able to overcome everything together.
