The situation when a beloved girl can be offended, angry with her boyfriend happens quite often. Moreover, the young man sometimes does not even know what he did and what caused her displeasure. He sees and understands only one thing: his beloved is out of sorts, she accuses him of something, demands an explanation and an apology.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to determine if it's worth starting the conversation right away, or if it's better to wait a little while she calms down. If the girl is very angry, is at the mercy of emotions, all your arguments and excuses may simply go unhealthy. Then postpone the conversation until a better moment.
Step 2
Even if you don't understand why she is unhappy, you can of course say, "Please, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry I upset you." Like, well, what can you do, this weaker sex is emotional, why not meet halfway. But by doing so, you automatically admit your guilt. And the girl will surely remember that you are ready to do this if she is out of sorts. This is unlikely to benefit your future relationship.
Step 3
Better to say something like this: “I’m sorry that you are so upset. Please explain what is the reason. If it turns out that this is because of me, I will immediately apologize and draw the necessary conclusions. The girl will have nothing to argue against such arguments. Of course, she can play capriciously out of principle: they say, is it really so difficult to guess yourself? But, in the end, he will explain the essence of his discontent.
Step 4
Listen carefully, without interrupting, to your beloved. And try to understand. Alas, guys and girls, due to differences in physiology and psychology, look at the same thing completely differently. What is very important for a girl may seem like nonsense, an insignificant trifle for a young man, and vice versa. But even if her claims seem to you the same nonsense, try not to demonstrate it. And even more so, do not laugh. You will offend the girl very much.
Step 5
Try to answer her complaints in a very neat, polite manner. Assure that you still love her, that you didn’t want to hurt her or hurt her in any way. There was simply a misunderstanding: you did not understand each other. And after that, you can already show generosity and apologize: “Of course, I should have been more attentive, tactful. Then you probably wouldn't be upset. Please excuse me! As a rule, reconciliation will not be long in coming.
