Men from time to time teach and curb women, that is, they educate. It doesn't always work out, but they still try. And what are we? Men will be lost without us! And what to do, how to educate them correctly?
After spending enough time together, we adopt habits, hobbies, phrases, communication principles and much more from a loved one, if we like it. So this is education. Conclusion: if we can learn all this, then we can educate a man.
But we are constantly educating men, women may be indignant. They also need to be reminded every day to put dirty things in the basket in the bathroom, and the plates in the sink, and even help is desirable. To maintain at least some order in the house, they just need to tell the algorithm of actions again every time.
I would very, very much like that one day these reminders would not be required, just a dream - he remembered where his things were, he put everything neatly, helped around the house without reminders, albeit in small things, but how nice it will be! But so far all is in vain. No matter how hard you struggle, there is no progress.
Are lovely ladies doing everything right? That's because what a trick, the more you ask him, the less understanding and help you get. Didn't you notice yourself? Never? What if you don't try to educate him like that?
Men are big children, and they never grow up. They need to be brought up like little children. No, not carrots and sticks. Only by encouragement. If he doesn't want to do anything for you, tell him how caring he is, and how proud you are of him. If he's too sloppy, praise his creative thinking. And praise, praise him at the earliest opportunity.
Here you need to try and make it clear to your beloved that he is the very best, not a day should pass without encouragement. Like? Of course, he will like it, and then as soon as you suddenly shut up, a hard black day will come for him. The absence of affectionate words will be hard labor for a man.
Check it out for yourself! Just a couple of weeks, maybe a month of stories about its perfection and the impossibility of your existence without it. And any of your requests will be fulfilled with just one word of yours.
And so, and men also say that women are too talkative. But it turns out that in fact they cannot live a day without kind words.
