Different people have different attitudes towards the relationships they build. Some are content with little, one kiss at night and the gentle look of a loved one can make them happy. Others are constantly not enough: attention, gifts and even love itself. In everything they are looking for a catch, hidden meaning, reasons for quarrels, but they also love their other half. Why are people unhappy in relationships, and how can you be happy in love?
Instructions
Step 1
The first rule of a happy relationship is to preserve yourself, your personality. Some people, especially women are susceptible to this, so dissolve in their love that they put their chosen one at the center of their own life, forgetting about themselves, their dreams, career and even about their appearance. When a person loses himself, he risks losing his beloved, as the relationship becomes difficult and tiring for both partners.
Over time, a person who puts his love above all else has a feeling of deprivation, unreasonable jealousy and exactingness. This does not lead to anything good, so you need to learn to love yourself no less strongly than your other half and understand that love should permeate life with thin threads, and not fill it to the brim, leaving no room for anything else.
Step 2
The second rule of love happiness is to find and develop common interests, to be friends with a loved one. Even if you are completely different people and you have opposite spheres of activity, come up with a common hobby for yourself. Even if it will be a weekly trip to the cinema. The main thing is that you know how to have a good time together. Learn to be friends with your chosen one. Share problems with each other, help solve them. In difficult times, it is you who should come to the rescue, and in moments of joy - sincerely share it with your beloved.
Step 3
The third rule of happiness in love is to work not only on spiritual relationships, but also on intimate ones. Sexual well-being improves the emotional background of a couple, and has a beneficial effect on mood and well-being. To make sex bring more emotions and pleasure, diversify it: look for new places, positions, seduce and seduce each other always, as in the period of the inception of a relationship.
Step 4
And of course, show care and respect for your partner, remain faithful. Real feelings do not tolerate lies and betrayal. If you think that you cannot remain faithful to one person for a long time, then do not build a relationship with him - they will not bring happiness to you or him. If you are ready to be loyal and loyal to your beloved, then keep your and his feelings, do not swear for no reason, do not make unnecessary claims and reproaches. Enjoy your time together, express your feelings openly, and show concern for your loved one. Then your love will bring both joy, happiness, tranquility and satisfaction.
