Due to the rise in housing prices, many young people cannot afford a separate apartment. They have to rent a room, sharing the territory with the hostess. In such situations, everyday problems often arise.
The landlady picks on the little things - what to do
To protect themselves, young people should be advised to discuss all important life aspects with the hostess before moving into a room. Ask her how she feels about the fact that guests can sometimes come, that after work the tenants can stay late, coming after midnight, what they will cook in the kitchen, like to sing in the shower, etc. The more points will be agreed in advance, the less likely the hostess will find fault.
When you move, try to please the hostess right away. Give her flowers, a small souvenir, or a household appliance. Attention is very important for lonely people, it can melt the toughest heart.
If the constant complaints persist, talk to the hostess. Tell her that there are no ideal people, strangers in the apartment will always bring discomfort. But you pay her money that can compensate for some of the inconvenience. Hint that for your money, you have the right to do what you want (within reason, of course). Ask not to bother you on any issues other than those related to room payments or bills. Explain that although the apartment is hers, the room is temporarily yours. And the rest of the space - the kitchen, toilet, bath, balcony - are shared. You have the right to use them as much as she does. Put yourself on the same level with the landlady, you don’t owe her anything other than a monthly rent.
Try to resolve conflicts peacefully, without quarrels and shouts. Very often, emotions are what single women renting out rooms need. By depriving them of this pleasure, you will protect yourself from constant scandals.
The landlady does not want to compromise - what to do
There are people who consider themselves to be always right. It is quite difficult to convince them, almost impossible. If your landlady is like that, conversations will get you nowhere. She will still think that she has the right to make small comments to you. In this case, it is better to find another room. It is very difficult to live with such a pretentious person, and there can be no question of any rest after work. The hostess will always find a reason for a quarrel. If there is no way to move immediately, try to show your face as little as possible. Work more, spend evenings with friends so that the landlady has no reason to pull your nerves. And be sure to look for new housing.
