Sometimes the sad end of the next romance makes you want to lock your heart. This is how you try to insulate yourself from pain and frustration. This is a normal sense of self-preservation.
Instructions
Step 1
No matter what, be open to new communication. Time passes, and negative feelings are dulled. It is impossible to live with pain in the heart and longing in the soul all the time. Such a state takes away vitality, does not allow to enjoy life. And life will bring you new pleasant meetings and acquaintances. At the very least, you shouldn't give up on them.
Step 2
When communicating with a new acquaintance, you involuntarily compare him with your former men. Try to see good, positive qualities in a new person for you. Assess it in terms of your principles, highlight the pros and cons. Such weighing will allow you to decide whether to continue acquaintance. However, don't let excessive criticism initially thwart all attempts to build new relationships. You should not make complete conclusions about a person at the first meeting. If you are interested in a man, then give him a chance to prove himself.
Step 3
Do not forget that all people have disadvantages and also you. The question is, are you ready to accept this person for who they are? This is very important for a serious relationship. If you are ready to accept a person along with his shortcomings, then this indicates your readiness for a new relationship. Don't be afraid of your feelings! Even if you later regret something, it's just not that you spent the rest of your life, shutting yourself off from everyone.
Step 4
Think about the fact that life is rather short. It will be very disappointing if you spend it on destructive self-criticism. If fate gives you another chance for happiness, then you should not give it up. Tune in to the positive, and you will receive a lot of positive emotions in return.
