A couple's first sex is always exciting. And, unfortunately, not everyone manages to warn a partner about their inexperience. Or virginity. How to do it? What words should I say? At what point? There are some tips to help you deal with the awkwardness.
Romantic relationships sooner or later lead to intimacy. And then each partner is overcome by a lot of questions that are associated with the first sex. The most relevant at the present time is the question of how to say about your inexperience, how to say about virginity. It is not so difficult if you approach such a delicate issue wisely.
Tips for girls
If you're a virgin but don't know how to tell your boyfriend about it, there are several options. For example, don't speak at all. After all, the quality of first sex will not be affected if there is love in the relationship. Or get up the courage and say. How? Straight. You should not write about it in SMS or in correspondence on the Internet. Such issues are discussed face to face.
For example, when the kisses get hotter and the hugs get tighter, you might stop and say that there is something your partner needs to know about. You don't have to say the word "virginity" out loud. You can replace it with a more beautiful expression - "I have never had anyone before." If a young man really loves you, then he will understand everything correctly and will behave accordingly.
Another way to say that you are still a virgin is to communicate during a phone call. This is no longer a correspondence, this is an intimate conversation where both are involved. And here it may well be enough courage to communicate such a delicate thing. Many couples like to plan their first sex together, and generally talk about this intimate side of the relationship. This is a good time to announce that you are just about to have your first sexual experience, but you really want to do everything right. This turns many guys on even more, because they have to become not only your first sexual partner, but also a guide to the world of pleasure and sensuality.
Tips for young people
Guys don't have to tell them they are still virgins. If only because few of the girls during the first joint sex can distinguish a virgin from a non-virgin. The experience of a partner, of course, shows his skills, but there are many ways to surprise a girl, even if this is the first experience. But, if there is a desire to make the relationship meaningful, to show the girl how important she is to you, how much you trust and value her, it is worth telling. Tell that this will be your first experience, your first girlfriend that you are so close to. How? For example, in between kisses. A gentle whisper in your ear that you would like your first experience with this particular girl will not only bring your relationship to a new level, but also excite your partner.
What should everyone know about? Despite how licentious the modern generation has become, virginity is still a value that should not be scattered left and right. And, of course, there is no need to be ashamed of her.
