To find your dream, analyze your real life and remember all your desires. And you can also immerse yourself in childhood, get carried away by books or films.
Necessary
- - paper;
- - a pen or pencil.
Instructions
Step 1
To find the dream of a lifetime, remember your innermost desires. Remember what you dreamed about in childhood, what you wanted to achieve in your youth, what you want at the moment. Write down all your desires, write down even those that seem ridiculous, ridiculous and unrealizable. Now, from the list, choose what you want the most. Try to match these desires or combine them, your dream may come out of this. You can also imagine that you have already managed to achieve something. Think about what else you would like.
Step 2
Divide your life into spheres. Now describe each of them as you would like to see it ideally. For example, if you have your own family, then think about what you are missing in family life. Think about what you would like to achieve in terms of your career. You can also describe your ideal appearance. List everything that you are striving for, then contrast it all and think about what your ideal life would be like.
Step 3
Books will help you find your dream. Read novels, short stories, biographies of famous people, science fiction stories, and so on. A book is a whole world and a huge space for dreams. For example, reading about the life of successful people or about travel, you can find something that you really want. It could be a trip to Italy, a house by the sea, or even your own plane.
Step 4
Watch movies, some of them describe interesting and unusual stories. In childhood, many dreamed of being like a character. And what prevents you from dreaming about the same in adulthood? Put yourself in the shoes of a hero and listen to your feelings. If you feel like an absolutely happy person, then the life of this character can become your dream.
Step 5
To find a dream, plunge into memories. Remember what gave you pleasure in the past, what you did best. For example, if you have always loved to draw, and you did it well, then a successful career as an artist could be your dream. Also observe yourself in real life and find out what is the source of inspiration for you at the moment.
Step 6
Chat with a friend, find out what he dreams of. Close people often have common interests. Therefore, what your friend is striving for may be important to you as well. But the dream should be your own, not someone's.
