Has your husband become more late at work? Does he leave to talk on the phone to another room or carry it with him all the time? Suddenly he began to present expensive gifts, although he had not done this before? All these are signs that your betrothed has a mistress on the side. Many legitimate wives who find themselves in such a situation are interested in the question: "Is it worth talking to the seductress of your husband or let everything go by itself?"
A hasty decision to talk to your spouse's mistress
Information about her husband's betrayal, first of all, causes a storm of negative emotions. Any woman, upon learning of such a betrayal, can commit rash acts. One of them is to meet with a homeless woman, throw her a tantrum and send her to hell. In the heat of the moment, you can do whatever you want, but if your relationship with your husband is dear to you and you are not ready to break up with him, it is best to calm down and start thinking objectively.
Options for the development of events
First, you must understand that any of your actions, especially the wrong ones, can lead to irreversible consequences. Calling your mistress, you will give her reason to rejoice, because she will feel that she is morally stronger than her legal wife, especially if she has long-term plans for your man. She will understand that you, too, are aware of what is happening and will begin to act more actively, further fueling hatred in you.
All this negativity will cause domestic scandals and will further alienate you from your spouse, who will think that his wife has become completely unbearable. The result is a divorce.
Another option for the development of events: you came to your senses, weighed everything and decided to call or meet with your husband's mistress, setting yourself up for a calm conversation. Do you think it's worth doing this? And what will your rival answer to the offer to leave your husband alone? That's right, she, most likely, will not listen to you. If a girl or woman dares to start a relationship with a married man, she is initially completely indifferent to the feelings of other people, in particular, to your suffering. This meeting can only lead to a decrease in your self-esteem.
There are also cases when the mistress does not know that her chosen one is married. This happens, but it is extremely rare. Even under these circumstances, a conversation with her husband's chosen one will lead nowhere. Usually, men do not tell their mistresses about their wives, because they are very afraid of losing them.
It is important to understand whether your husband has any feelings for you. After all, if he learns from his beloved woman that you spoke to her, then the result can be very deplorable.
And yet, when all feelings subside and the situation ultimately decides in your favor, do not remind your husband at every opportunity about his betrayal. All people are wrong, the main thing is that your husband eventually made the right choice. If you still did not manage to reach your loved one, try to let him go. You know what they say: "You can't be cute by force."
