In every young family, sooner or later, a baby will be born, whom the young parents will bring up. But on the other hand, after the birth of a child, problems and difficulties may arise.
Families are created for the sake of procreation. And often after the birth of the first child, new problems are created that did not exist before. This is an investment of your time, an investment of your financial resources and, in turn, attention to the child.
In theory, everything seems to be clear, but in practice it turns out where everything is more complicated.
There are many examples when the mother invested all her finances and time in the child, and the father, in turn, neglected this, and there were times when he disappeared altogether. This behavior does not characterize the father from the best side, and you should think about it.
Sometimes the opposite problem is encountered, when a mother, who does not have a desire to have a child, gives birth and refuses maternal responsibilities, and all the responsibility falls either on her mother or on her father. A woman in such a situation can be described as an irresponsible and licentious person who does not want to solve her problems. Such situations are rare, but they still exist.
Children are sensitive natures and feel good parental love. And it often happens that a young family, after the birth of their first child, has not yet walked up and devotes more time to themselves, their desires and needs, thereby depriving the child of love.
A child is not a toy, but also a living organism that wants attention, love and affection. And to take on such responsibility, you need to be prepared and have a certain foundation.
