In modern families, the relationship between parents and children is often built according to a democratic principle, but some families still adhere to an authoritarian type of upbringing, in which the will of the child is in the hands of the parents. One way or another, both approaches are not able to prevent the problems that await every parent at certain stages of life.
Instructions
Step 1
Parents and the child are one whole, a kind of system in which gears and nuts are replaced by emotions and empathy. Therefore, the difficulties of one of the family members, in particular the baby, become common to each of its members. Often, difficulties in the family arise during the crisis moments of the child's development. One of the first difficult periods is about two to three years of age. At this time, the child refuses to obey mom and dad, shows negativism, self-will, stubbornness. The activity of the baby during this period is off scale. Parents are faced with such a sudden change in behavior rather painfully, since they do not know what to do with such a pressure of energy. However, you should not consider this behavior of the baby as "wrong". This is a completely natural stage of development, during which you should spend as many outdoor games as possible, walk with your child more often and try not to avoid communication with peers. You just need to go through this period.
Step 2
The second crisis moment is the beginning of school education. At this stage, it is necessary to make sure whether the child is ready to enter social life, in which he will have to establish contact with classmates and the teacher. You also need to pay attention to the mental capabilities of the child. Otherwise, he may experience learning difficulties and not keep up with the curriculum.
Step 3
The third moment of crisis is marked by the period most saturated with problems and difficulties - adolescence. At this time, the teenager moves away from his parents, acquires interests that are completely far from family life. Love dramas flare up in young hearts, new hobbies appear. Children come home late, make dubious friends. Such surprises surprise parents almost every day, thereby causing many conflict situations in which neither side can find understanding.
Step 4
Parents today face many of the same challenges as their own parents did a generation earlier. Problems do not change their nature, only the approach to their solution changes. However, today's parents very often cannot give their child that reference point by which he will follow through life, a kind of anchor to which he will hold on. It is especially worth paying attention to this before adolescence, otherwise it will be too late to change anything later.
