Relations with older generations are not always ideal, because young people often try to evade their direct responsibilities - caring and communicating with them. Correct behavior in such a situation is the key to a strong and healthy family.
Instructions
Step 1
Respect the elderly. This feeling is fundamental in the relationship between the younger and older generations. Take it for granted that they have lived a long life and you can learn a lot from them. Appreciate your grandparents and treat them with due respect.
Step 2
Show concern. You can always do something that will make your grandparents happy and show how much you value them. Buying a new home phone, replacing or repairing a strictly armchair - all these little things add up to a picture of caring for each other.
Step 3
Visit them often. No phone calls can replace face-to-face communication, so try to find a couple of hours a month to visit the elderly. You will tell about your life, listen to how they live - and everyone will be satisfied. Give up the five-minute races for grandma's pancakes - this approach will only offend her and the grandfather and the relationship will become strained.
Step 4
Listen to the opinion of the elderly. Do not be categorical in your judgments and try not to immediately sweep away all their advice. Keep in mind that life experience sometimes has no expiration date, and a person from the past generation can share really valuable knowledge.
Step 5
Let grandfathers interact with grandchildren. It so happens that young parents care about their children so much that they do not allow anyone to help with their upbringing. Give up this approach, let grandfathers give instructions to grandchildren, play with them and help them learn about the world around them.
