It has long been known that all life is a continuous choice. Every day you choose: what dress to wear, what lipstick to buy, to which university to apply. And now the moment has come when you have to make a choice between the guys with whom you are dating. This choice is one of the most important in your life.
Instructions
Step 1
You meet two at the same time, you both like them, you have certain feelings for each. But you understand that it cannot continue this way. A choice must be made.
Step 2
First, sort out your feelings. Think carefully about which one is closer to you and for which relationship. Are you going to arrange your future family life with one of them, or until you have such far-reaching plans and you just need to choose a guy for the near future?
Step 3
If you have decided on the goals, then start to analyze the advantages and disadvantages of each. For family life, the one who is serious about your relationship is more suitable, who values them, who will be faithful to you and take care of you. He must be a serious person, firmly on his feet and achieving success in his career.
Step 4
For a relationship that you plan to be entertaining, without any ambitious plans, choose a guy who is easy-going, funny, outgoing, ready to support your adventurous plans, fast on the rise, and generous. You can have a good time with that. A year or two, you will simply enjoy his communication, spend evenings together at discos and clubs, go for picnics on weekends, spend vacations in interesting and fascinating places.
Step 5
Take a close look at how guys feel about your hobbies, how they take care of you. If a guy does not support your interests, makes fun of your hobbies, then in the future he may simply forbid you to devote time to your favorite hobby.
Step 6
Be sure to study their inner world, outlook on life. If they are at odds with yours, then the relationship between you will not last long. You will have to adjust to him or try to change the guy. And this is almost always unrealistic, just a waste of time.
